Dealing with Difficult People and Situations with Empathy and Care
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Chapter six taught us how to be empathetic when dealing with difficult people
and situations. The first portion of the chapter specifically concentrated on strategies to
empathize with people who are uncooperative or angry. Refraining from judging was
advised and an acting out was presented as a desperate cry for help. Taking a step back
when conflict does occur was also advised. The second part of the chapter focused on more
effective ways to communicate care to people who are going through trying times, such as
illness or dying. Care providers and patients were taught not to view sickness or death as a
failure. Specific measures for communicating empathy in these circumstances were
suggested. Two specific case study narratives of lived experiences were also presented. In
the case in point a nursing student gained an understanding of what it is like to be
stigmatized because of an addiction. An exercise on how to increase tolerance and
acceptance was presented, followed by an additional teaching strategy on how to establish
trust while still maintaining professional boundaries.
Acceptance, care, compassion, death, empathy, palliative care,
professional boundaries, safety plan, sickness, stigmatization, tolerance, trust.
Full Time Nurse Educator in the Faculty of Health Sciences Douglas College, BC Canada Canada.